I REMEMBER ASKING THIS QUESTION to a group of young people I am handling in our church: ”IF YOU WERE A CACTUS, WHAT?”
They were dumbfounded.
And then I asked again, “If you were to save the world, so what?” They fell silent. With wide-eyed faces, they asked me to reveal the right answer.
Then I smiled and said, “The correct answer is I don’t know.” After that incident, they realized that I was intentionally asking questions that don’t make sense. They found it funny and took their revenge on other people.
In reality, we are sometimes like that. We ask the wrong questions. But what’s worse is that most people don’t even ask. They just go with the flow. Having a cell group full of passionate and curious youths throughout the last four years challenged me to help them ask the right questions in Christian living. And one of these questions was: “Why pray if God knows everything?”
We do not pray to inform God. As the Bible says, God is sovereign. He knows what we are thinking about, what we will say, and when we will do it. It is not for His benefit that we communicate with Him. It is, in fact, for our sake that He commanded us to pray. In the book Growing Deep In God: Integrating Theology and Prayer, pastor Edmund Chan emphasizes that prayer is not about using God, but finding Him:
It is not God who need our prayers, but we who need God- not as the cosmic answer to our questions nor the celestial solution to our problems, but for who He is and for who we are when we are in Him (Chan, 2008: 45).
We pray to develop our dependence on Him. Prayerful dependence helps us build a habit of seeking God, trusting God, and letting God be God. It is a two-way communication that enriches our relationship with our Heavenly Father. In fact, ”True prayer cultivates a deep spiritual hunger that draws us deeper into God. For spiritual intimacy is actually borne out of spiritual hunger” (Chan, 2008: 45).
I was once one of those who asked this question (because I was not fond of praying). But God taught me how.
A few months ago, I experienced a painful situation that made me question my faith. It drove me to lose all hope. I was lost. I never knew that I would question my 8 years of faith. But God sent me people to pray with me. Since then, I could not live another day without praying. It was my only life support during that period of suffering. I realized that it is not for God’s benefit but mine. It drew me closer to Him. It strengthened me. It helped me hold on to my faith.
God is indeed good. He knows that we are weak and we need Him. This is, perhaps, the reason why He wanted us to pray.